When you’re traveling abroad, you want to fully understand the place you’re in. Food, history, culture, politics, art, the weight of its geography, all of it.
While traveling you may mind connecting with locals because of obvious language barrier.
But if you take the risk and befriend them, they will take you to places you never would have found on your own.
I got the chance to meet a guy near my accommodation. Turned out he is a history and art student, one who’s spent ten years building historical maps and short documentary-style videos for YouTube and local communities. I learned more from him than I expected and then from his mom, an English and music teacher at a primary school.
Today, they invited me to a music class run by the school’s faculty, for kids who spend two hours a week learning Javanese music called Gamelan.
When you walk into the music lab and the instruments look like nothing special at first, a row of dusty brass metal. But the moment you start exploring each one, it clicks. Seven different instruments, all built around the same pattern of music notes, while producing unique noise.
I was a random guest, no training, no formal lesson in the history or the how-to. And they still handed me a seat and a set of notes to allowing me to get familiar with two similar instruments.
At first, it felt like too much. But nothing stays that way once you sit with it long enough. You have to watch both instruments at once, memorize a run of sixteen notes in one go, then control the instrument with one hand while you strike it with the other.
It was hit and miss most of the time. But I loved the rhythm instrument was building. After the session, the kids came up to meet me, warm and welcoming, some of them stopping by earlier just to watch and cheer while I was getting comfortable.
I enjoy talking to random locals and I love it almost all the time. Thinking through too much about everything while you are there to sink in, doesn’t make sense to me. I try to vibe along the people who fits into my funnel of curiosity and I love it. A little pre-research and open mind gets you far more than you are owed as a visitor.
That’s the whole trick. Make yourself available to actually know a place. You can only do that if you let yourself get soaked in local experience.
So say more yeses, as you will get to experience things you never imagined.



